Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Conviction & Compromise

I want to share a quote that I believe is extremely relevant right now as election day grows near.  First a little context.  This quote was taken from a forum discussion held at Notre Dame University on September 4, 2012.  The discussion was entitled "Conviction and Compromise:  Being a Person of Faith in a Liberal Democracy", and Elder Dallin H. Oaks was invited to be a panelist.  During the discussion, Elder Oaks said the following:
"I want to support a person for public office that has something higher than their own self interest by which they believe they will be judged.  And next I want a person of integrity.  And I'm glad to measure integrity by how well a person adheres to their own system of belief -- whatever that is."
This was not delivered as doctrine or the "official position" of the church.  However, I wouldn't take the words of an apostle lightly.

It's not very popular to bring religion into politics.  But for me, my religion is such a huge part of who I am and what I believe -- I couldn't possibly ignore my religious convictions when considering who to vote for.  When I heard this quote, my immediate thought was that one of the candidates for president clearly meets this criteria, while the other -- in my opinion -- falls short.

How quickly did Barack Obama distance himself from his church during his '08 campaign?  As soon as it became unpopular, he discarded the religion he had been a part of for over 20 years.  Obama stated that he doesn't share the views of the man who officiated at his wedding, baptized his two daughters and been his pastor for 20 years. The title of Obama's second book, "The Audacity of Hope," came from a Wright sermon.  But he cast all that aside the instant it posed a threat to his own self interest.

On the other hand, Mitt Romney has defended his faith countless times.  Us Mormons, we're not very popular for whatever reason.  But Romney does not shy away from his religion, or dance around the questions about his beliefs.  I loved what he said in tonight's debate:
"My — my passion probably flows from the fact that I believe in God. And I believe we’re all children of the same God. I believe we have a responsibility to care for one another. I — I served as a missionary for my church. I served as a pastor in my congregation for about 10 years. I’ve sat across the table from people who were out of work and worked with them to try and find new work or to help them through tough times."
It's not the first time he has publicly proclaimed those beliefs.  He clearly believes, as Elder Oaks stated, that he will be judged by something higher than his own self interest.

During the vice presidential debate, Joe Biden and Paul Ryan -- both self-proclaimed Catholics -- were asked what role their religion plays in their position on the issue of abortion.  Joe Biden said:
"With regard to -- with regard to abortion, I accept my church's position on abortion as a -- what we call a (inaudible) doctrine. Life begins at conception in the church's judgment. I accept it in my personal life.  But I refuse to impose it on equally devout Christians and Muslims and Jews, and I just refuse to impose that on others..."
I have a hard time with politicians who make statements like this.  The Catholic church, in no uncertain terms, teaches that abortion is murder.  He claims to accept the position of the Catholic church on abortion.  So what I hear when he makes this statement is "I believe that abortion is murder, but I refuse to take away other peoples' right to commit murder...".  I'm sorry, but if that's your belief, how can you be ok with it?  I can't understand that.

Paul Ryan's response makes much more sense to me:
"I don't see how a person can separate their public life from their private life or from their faith. Our faith informs us in everything we do. My faith informs me about how to take care of the vulnerable, of how to make sure that people have a chance in life... Now I understand this is a difficult issue, and I respect people who don't agree with me on this, but the policy of a Romney administration will be to oppose abortions with the exceptions for rape, incest and life of the mother."
I echo the sentiment.  How is it possible to separate your personal convictions and beliefs from your public position?  And if you are willing to do that, how strong are those convictions and beliefs in the first place?  Well, that's not for me to judge -- but it certainly makes me question them.

As for me, I cannot compromise my beliefs and convictions.  I cannot vote for a candidate whose position on social and moral issues are polar opposite from what I believe and know to be true.

I apologize for my rambling.  I'm not sure I adequately expressed myself in this post, but I have a lot of thoughts floating around in my head and I wanted to sort them out a bit.  If you're still with me, thanks for reading!

Sunday, June 03, 2012

Amazing Grace

Yesterday, I faced a tremendous exercise in mind-over-matter.  I was asked to sing at the funeral of a dear friend who died too soon after losing a long battle with breast cancer.  Her favorite song was Amazing Grace, and that was the song her family asked me to sing.

If you have ever sung at a funeral, you understand how difficult it can be.  It's hard to keep your emotions in check as you listen to the family and friends of the deceased sharing their happy memories with that person.  The first time I practiced the song with my mom (who accompanied me on the piano), I barely got through the first line before my emotions got the better of me and I was unable to continue.  I wondered, if I'm this much of a mess while practicing, how will I ever be able to sing this at the actual funeral?  There's a particular line that says, "'Tis grace hath brought me safe thus far, and grace will lead me home."  Every time I got to that part of the song, I couldn't help but think about how Missey was no longer with us -- Heavenly Father had called her home.  My heart ached for her husband and kids, as I can't even imagine what they are going through.

When we were practicing on Saturday morning before the funeral, my perspective changed.  I realized that, even though we are sad because we will miss her, there is much more reason to be happy than sad.  Missey is no longer suffering.  She has been led home by the grace of our Heavenly Father, and she was received with anxious and loving arms by those who went before her.

The final verse of Amazing Grace says:

"When we've been there ten thousand years,
Bright shining as the sun,
We've no less days to sing God's Praise,
Than when we've first begun."

I had sung this song many times before, but I don't think I had ever thought about what this verse means.  It means that our days are not numbered.  It means that even after our day of probation comes to an end, we will continue to live on into eternity.  How comforting, and how true this is!  I am so grateful for that knowledge.  I am so thankful to my Savior for making it possible for me to return to the presence of my loving Heavenly Father again.  I am so grateful to Him for making it possible for me to be with my sweet wife and my wonderful family forever.  

I was able to sing the entire song with a smile on my face.  

Saturday, April 07, 2012

One Ring to Rule Them All!

Hi friends.  I am replacing my wedding ring because my current ring is much to big and constantly slips off my finger.  I want my new ring to be unique, and I have found several that I like, but I need help narrowing it down.  Please take a look below, and then fill out the form.  Please only vote for your top 3.  Thanks!